Showing posts with label Tell me why. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Tell me why. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Making it Big

A teacher, a banker, a psychiatrist and a mom get talking... We slurp up alugedde neeruli huli mixed with rice, crunch into sabudana appalams and lick a pointing finger of lemon pickle. We talk about retirement, about second beginnings and about our children. Like and Spike stories. and Inevitable...
A flash back into my staff room chatter and cell phone conversations ensues. Let me give you a peek into...

At first we thought it was marks. We applauded those in the exalted 90s and agonized over students who got less than 80. 85, 90 percent. What will become of you??? we wailed.
But they proved us wrong. Kids who did well for themselves were not necessarily in the exalted 90s, they had often been in the simmering 70s or the almost 60s.

And then we thought oh, maybe its not only marks after all.  So we though it is perhaps English. They were good at English you know.
But they proved us wrong. Kids who thought oversight was the past tense of oversee, kids whose eyes glazed after the first two lines of a word problem in maths, kids who had crisp textbooks and overused guidebooks, posted their amazing strides into the world of business. And offered JOBs to class toppers...

And then we thought oh its family backing. Papa has a nice business and kiddo takes it forward. Or maybe Papa finances a venture.
But they proved us wrong. Facebook updates show daring entrepreneurs, stomping boldly into fields untried by family, sometimes by anyone, and making great name for themselves.

And then we said Luck, we paused, and shook our heads and said, yes OK, Luck counts, but as they say... Fortune favours the brave. So is the last word then... Being Brave?
Being brave enough to dream
Being brave enough to acknowledge the dream.
Being brave enough to step out of line and follow the dream.
Being brave enough to stop and learn the skills required to move on.
Being brave enough to ask for help.
Being brave enough to express gratitude.
Being brave enough to shine when success is in hand.

Thank you Kids. For Being brave. For proving us wrong.
Psst. A feather in your cap, is always a feather in ours (teachers, moms, counselors,)
Here's to facebook
and to the updates.


Friday, March 22, 2013

Pending

Have you seen the Heptathlon competitions?
These mind blowing athletes who participate in them ... wow amazing guys
they do seven things and are good at them all.
OK. they don't all win
but they do those seven things...right?
swim, run, jump, bicycle, hurdle, throw .........?? what else?
obviously they do all that every day.

and I start on one thing... and everything else lies unattended
blog posts pending
phone calls not made
bills not paid
applications not filled
papers not submitted

it is really amazing even to be the last guy in a Heptathlon...
achu, shall we order Chinese today?

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Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Real world

its two days since i got back from bangalore

I have not yet said Hi to my neighbour
i have not yet met the kids i bond with here
but...
...
I have emailed, updated on facebook, read up all blogs that i follow, made new friends on networking sites, and watched online videos
is my virtual life overtaking the real one?
or is the virtual world my real world?


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this one is about our experience of a powercut in delhi
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Friday, December 24, 2010

a space in time

My cousin S is to arrive from Delhi today. She, her parents, her dodappa dodamma, atte mave, and my husband and I, have been looking forward to this event as we all havent met for a long time.
so yesterday went like this...

  • S says she will come by Meru taxi on her own,...,
  • No no.. let us go and receive her.
  • Go by the airport bus and come back together in meru taxi?
  • Call the RR taxi and keep it for the entire day...
  • Mani, you make lunch, we will stop by your house on the way back.
  • Thumba elaborate lunch maad beda...simple aagi anna saaru maadu
  • OK, I'll cook dinner, u relax with your daughter, and come to our house for dinner.
  • S likes idlis. I will make idlis. you make the rest of the dinner.
  • I want to bring sweets from adyar anand bhavan what would she like?
Everyone got up early....her mom, for she was too excited. she herself, as she had to reach the airport in time...in the Delhi fog, Mani as she had to cook the special lunch, and some of us...just because...

Devaru vara kottaru, pujari vara kodbekalla?
Kingfisher had the last laugh.
The flight was delayed from 8.15AM to 10 AM to 1.15 PM. Now they tell us the expected time of arrival is 3.45PM!!
Suddenly...our mind is blank. Excited chatter changes to tired silence. its like....what shall we fill this sudden space in time now?

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what u doing today
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Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Watching it live

It is much easier to watch a cricket match, a CWG opening, a Wimbledon or a Sonu Nigam night on TV.

It is free. You sit back with a packet of chips. The chair is comfortable. You avoid the noise and the shoving. To top it all, you get a much better view.

 
Yet lots of people go out there and buy tickets to watch the shows live.

 
When you watch it there, live, breathing in the atmosphere do you get something more than the mere game-song-event?

 
  • The thrill, the hope, the energy of live performance?
  • The fun of being the first to see a little something go wrong way?
  • Is it all about… been there, done that?
  • About having a story to tell?
  • Or about …
  • Warm looks passed around on stage?
  • A mistake corrected cleverly?

What makes you buy that expensive ticket to watch it live?

 

Monday, October 18, 2010

Weekend goodness

Every weekend the papers carry better-yourself articles. They have wonderful tips about how to think, have glossy hair, woo a girl, get a pay raise and become thin. Do you? like me… devour these articles with vigour? Do you feel slightly dissatisfied with what you are and how you are? Say, ya, this idea is good. Monday you discuss these great tips with friends.
By Tuesday the verve kind of subsides.
Thursday you have forgotten how inadequate you actually are.
It’s weekend again.
And again you read all these wise people and feel
Gosh, I just need to be better than what I am.
Does this happen to you too?

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

What timing!!

I will be meeting my grandson and daughter after 2 years and guess what...
I have fever. My joints hurt. I dint know I had so many!! I walk like a clown as my knees dont bend. Gross  ... What timing!
I can barely walk and the doctor calls it flew
well Ok flu
bad joke I know
anything to keep up the spirit
and tell me why
When every country fends for itself we call it Common Wealth??
hey, you got a joke?
anything to make me smile?